You’ve been married to who you thought was the “love of your life” for the last 20 years. Suddenly, you get informed that your love is divorcing you for another person. After being blindsided, you emerge from your shock coma and after the shock wears off feel:
At some point in time, I bet most of you could say “HELL YA” to that question. I know I can. But in hindsight all the signs were there. However, I was so involved in either reminiscing about the past or fantasizing (or worrying) about the future that I didn’t see the PRESENT signs that something was about to happen.