Obe sex can be done at any place at any time. But many of those who are flying solo, like to set the mood before they engage in any type of energy sex.
How do you set the mood?
Candles have always enhanced personal energy and set a certain atmosphere to the area. But with OBE sex, you “tune out” to your surroundings. Not cool if something were to go wrong and you suddenly find your space in flames.
That said – there is something you can do in order to get that candle vibe — they sell “fake” candles that run on batteries. I know what you’re thinking — these things can’t possibility work. Oh…but they do:)
If you’re into scented candles – you can instead burn some incense or use some essential oils in a diffuser. Even if you’re not into scented candles – the sense of smell works wonders for OBE. Some scents that set the mood (both for OBE and physical sex): Ylang-Ylang, Ginger, Patchouli, Orange, Neroli and Lime.
With the fake candles and the wondrous scent in the air – you can also add a couple of fluffy pillows to relax upon. To round out the mood – a small fountain.
To enhance your energy during OBE (preferable for telepathic or astral sex) wear moldavite or hold it in your hand. Next surround yourself with quartz crystals (at least 3) – pointed towards you. If you feel sick to the stomach or lightheaded – take off the moldavite, put it outside the crystals, and try again. Moldavite takes some getting used to – it’s a very powerful stone on it’s own. You put it in the middle of energy enhancing crystals and wow!
The energy enhancing isn’t recommended for dream sex because with the crystals you won’t be able to fall asleep. Kind of defeats the purpose of dreaming.
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