OBE sex is the exchange of energy between at least two willing souls. But if one soul is doing all of the giving and not getting much in return, then the OBE relationship is one-sided and draining. Just as in a physical relationship, it takes two to have sexual relations and to keep the relationship alive. A one-sided relationship is stressful and draining. No one needs to put themselves in that position.
So what happens if you find yourself in this situation? You have two choices:
1. Tell the other party how you feel and ask for change.
2. Break up.
Now if this were a physical relationship – doing either – while not pleasant, you pick up a phone and you open your mouth. Easy.
In an OBE sex relationship you already have an energy connection with the person – so now all you do is send a message telepathically.
- Focus in on your partner – imagine every detail about them – including their environment clothes, hair, mood, etc….
- Send the white light that is around you to them. Think of it as you two are now encased in a big white bubble.
- Wait for the physical sign that you are connected: solar plexus chakra could vibrate or feel “odd”, you could get dizzy, lightheaded, get a headache, etc… Whatever the sign is that is unique to you – it will come on sudden.
- In simple terms tell them that I break up or that you need your feelings & energy reciprocated.
- Bring the white energy back to you.