Do you have someone in your life who runs hot and cold? One minute they’re all over you – next minute they’re MIA? Add some stability to your life. 


  • Non metal fireproof bowl
  • A picture of the hot/cold person. If no picture is present – then write their name, DOB if known and physical characteristics in red ink on a piece of paper. 
  • Small glass of water
  • Match/lighter
  1. In the FIREPROOF BOWL place the PICTURE. 
  2. Light the PICTURE. As it burns recite: The attention you pay towards me when it is convenient for you turns to ashes to ashes, dust to dust.
  3. Once the PICTURE burns about 1/2 way – pour the WATER over it as you recite: I quell your ability to turn away from me and run when it is convenient for you. 
  4. Sit quiet for a minute and imagine a peace between you two where there is stability and no more hot/cold drama. 
  5. Thank whatever powers you believe in for their help in this matter. 
  6. Bury the contents of the bowl – if possible. If not – throw it away. 
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