‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ isn’t the best erotic book on the planet and it certainly isn’t the best one to show the world about BDSM – or about sex – or any chance of a glimmer of realism. SIGH. In fact – the book stinks. I’m sorry, but it does.
But while it is one of worst stories ever written for reasons I’d love to debate if anyone is interested — it did do two things:
It showed that there is so much more than vanilla sex. Women are hungry for MORE.
It got women to talk about sex.
And for those two things and those two only – I give two thumbs up.
Women ARE HUNGRY for variety. Romance and gifts are important and always needed. Just as is an emotionally connection and that partners are present (in the moment) when they are together.
But even when you have:
- Emotional connection
Women still need variety. The problem up until ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ is that the variety was hidden behind the red curtain in the video store. This book brought erotic sex to the mainstream – to the masses – that it was OKAY for the stay at home mom with 3 kids to rope some naughty into her sex life.
I want YOU to explore more outside of your comfort zone. Reading well-written erotica will help to drop some sensual seeds in your brain that you and your partner can play out!
3 Erotic Books To Help You Lead A Non-Vanilla Sex Life
Keep reading – keep s-exploring! Not everything is for everyone – so read a variety of “out of your comfort zone” books to find out what you’d like to try. It’s important for you to find what you like!
Now as you know ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ the movie is coming out Valentine’s Day 2015. And with it a whole new visual to non-vanilla sex. Once you watch it (or even if you don’t and you want to expand your movie-watching )- one of my favorite BDSM movies of all time is The Secretary with James Spader. It is still rather tame – but it is still hot.
Talk about sex – don’t be shy! No one to talk to? I’m always open to talk about sex. No obligations. No strings attached. Just talk. Interested? Ladies – click here to set up a time to chat!