Career or Love? How to Have Both!

Relationships take a lot of time and energy. It’s work. Even when the love flows, it is still work (although it probably doesn’t feel like work – which is what it is supposed to do). I have clients all the time where the person says – I have a great career, plenty of money, but I can’t find love. Why can’t I find it? Or I have the love of my life, but we struggle all the time with money. Why is that?

We’re all trying to have it all. It’s entirely possible to do – but you need to understand that while energy is all around us and through us, it only increases in the area of our attention.

When you’re building a business, going to school, or starting a new relationship, you energy is focused there. If you’re working on building your business or climbing the career ladder, it’s very difficult to start a new relationship or maintain the one you have. Why? Because the energy and the time are not there to do it.

So how do you do it? How to you funnel your energy to both love and money (or love and school, school and money, etc…) without letting something slide?

Balance – and the “in the know” that while we can have all that we want, our attention cannot be everywhere at once.

  1. Decide what is important right now. Pick one thing that will make a difference in your life. Put 30 % of your awake daily time and energy into it.
  2. With the other daily 70% – divide it up this way: You – 25%, Family/friends – 20%, Career or Love (depending what you put in the 30% spot) – 20%, Misc – 5%.

Now it’s important that:

  1. When you reach your goal of whatever is in the 30%, that you rotate it 20% and put something else in the 30%.
  2. You keep you at least 25%. Yes, family/friends, career/love is less than “you” – but if you are not working right – everything else will suffer. You have to have ME time. It’s not selfish. It’s lifesaving.
  3. That you sleep. I seriously have to add that in. The percent above is in regard to your awake time.

If you funnel your energy strategically, you will get what you want without letting anything slide!

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