What do I want? If someone were to tell you to ask yourself that question, what would you say? When I was asked this question last week, I hesitated for a moment and said (what most do) – to be happy.

Ok was the reply from the questioner. A pause. Ask yourself again — what do I want? You want happiness – that’s great! But what does that mean to you?


  1. To be able to pay all bills with ease and have plenty left over.
  2. To have one good (romantic, long-term) love in my life.
  3. For my son to grow up safe and happy.
  4. To travel.
  5. To make a difference in people’s lives.
  6. To open and operate a no-kill animal shelter.
  7. To create a national food & health assistance for animals.
  8. To write a bestselling book series
  9. To get the Black Triangle made into a film or at least a book 1st and then a movie.
  10. To have writing be the foundation of my wealth.

The questioner kind said hummmmm to himself. And then said.

List a 100 things you are going to do this year to make those 10 steps a reality.

Of course, I didn’t think it would be that difficult. But it is. It takes a lot of soul-searching — what am I willing to do? That is the question. So far I am on #50. 1/2 way done! It has been an eye-opener so far!

Now it’s time for you to ask yourself, “What Do I Want?”

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